Wednesday, July 29, 2009

Lucky for us...




Lucky us that Andy found Shay and now she is ours. She is ours to make us laugh, OK, I mean snort. She is ours to strengthen our testimony by being an example of faithful, daily scripture reading. She is ours to make each of us feel needed, yes, we NEED to talk to each other everyday. She is ours to help us feel loved. Shay, you are loved and you are a gift to us by making us feel loved by you. You are cherished. Happy Birthday!!!

Happy Day to Aubrey


Happy Birthday to Aubrey! How do you tell your oldest child how grateful you are for them? How do you tell them to what degree you admire them for surviving your parenting? I think when the oldest child stands at the judgement bar they will be given an extra bright halo for having led the way. A bright halo for having led their parents in learning how to parent and led their siblings in how to be a kid. Aubrey has been a beautiful woman to have as a daughter. She was born with a wise spirit to teach me how to be a better mom. I will always be grateful for her and her forgiveness of my shortcomings. Thank you Aubrey for being so loving to me and your dad.

Falling Water




Matthew has tried several times this summer to take the family on a hike to the waterfall. Finally, last weekend, the Tyler's joined us for a fun walk up the canyon. It's amazing to me how just 1/4 mile from the highest house on the hill, you can walk up a little path and not know you are within minutes of a freeway and large suburban area. It was a refreshing, cool break to stand at the base of the waterfall and feel the mist of spray on our faces. Thanks Matthew for keeping life fun.















...and of course, no family activity is complete without sweet and sticky on a stick, YUM!!

Preston/Eleven




Today's is Aubrey's birthday and I am just now getting around to blogging about Preston's birthday. All he asked for was Lego's. He is a lego master. He knows more about and has put together more legos than any one I know. If the maker of Lego's knew what Preston knows about their product, they would hire him to be a representative. Seriously, if you have questions, call him.

Lego's is what Preston likes, now let me tell you what I like about Preston. I like his gentleness. While most kids his age are into movies with violence and like to pretend fight, Preston is the peace-maker trying to make everyone feel good. He is the third adult in the Tyler household. He is ready at a moments notice to take over any responsibility his mom gives him. He can babysit his siblings, cook mac'n cheese, clean the kitchen and get his siblings to bed (sometimes better than his parents) and never break a sweat. I have heard him remind Luke to wash his hands, Madison to pick-up her toys and Abigail to say "thank you". He worries about his mom and loves his dad. He recently asked his dad what he should do if he Chris doesn't make it home safely from Afghanistan. He wanted to know how he can take care of his mom, sisters and little Lukee. (Please, pray for all of them that this will not be a concern)

In 11 months Preston will receive the Aaronic Priesthood. You may have to be 12 years old for that privilege, but I know at age 11 Preston is already prepared for the responsibility. When I think back to the time the Dr.'s told his parents they should consider aborting him, because of his kidneys, I thank the Lord that Aubrey and Chris followed the Spirit and chose life. Preston has given us a better life just by being in our family. He is my hero and I not only love him, I cherish him!

Suggestions anyone?

Do any of you out there have a suggestion for a program I can use to print my blog? I tried one I found on the internet, but it wouldn't allow me to edit the contents. Anyway, if any of you know of something, please comment. Thanks

Wednesday, July 15, 2009

Rollover Beethoven, Preston and Madison are here







Preston and Madison recently played at a piano recital. They were great!

More S'mores, please

Dani and Jake have a fire pit in the backyard and one of their favorite family activities is making s'mores. Several days a week, after dinner, they fire it up and give Sammie some s'mellos, as she calls them, and the party begins. Recently, I was up there, when Cameron had his first official s'more. It is the beginning of a wonderful adventure in his life. Fire and chocolate, every boy's dream.

Father, Son Camp-out

Or, as in this case, Grandpa, Grandson camp-out





Saturday, July 11, 2009

Blue Knights and the Ogden Standard Examiner

This post is about my nephew, Seth. There are pictures and some video about the drum and bugle corp he is in. I had no idea how cool it is that he made the corp, until I saw their practice and performance. Not only is he a great kid, he is an outstanding musician and because of it, he has a full scholarship. I'm proud to be his aunt.

Aubrey found an article on the front page of the Ogden Standard Examiner for July 9th about the Drum and Bugle Corp. It is an interesting article with a great picture. Here is the link to a video that shows their practice. Amazing that these kids do this for 15 hours a day for an entire summer.

http://www.standard.net/live/news/177963/

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Drum Corps International Competition / Corps see WSU event as a vital step to reaching the finals
By DI LEWIS
Standard-Examiner staff

OGDEN -- On a day when most people would be in the shade sipping something cold, the Blue Knights were dressed in black and gliding across the field in formation.

They were rehearsing for Wednesday night's competition at Weber State University, because getting to the finals of the Drum Corps International competition in Indianapolis means these tan teens don't get much down time.

Some had instruments raised, brass bells pointing toward the stadium seats, others carried drums while still others tossed flags high in the air. All were brought together for the summer by a common passion.

George Lindstrom, event manager for Corps Encore, understands what drives the performers and staff because he has been involved with the community since he was 17.

"It's a passion," Lindstrom said. "It's a desire to overcome the odds and match the challenge.

"It's a lot of really good musicians. It's elite."

Mark Hartman, public relations for the Denver-based Blue Knights, said there are 22 corps in the World Class division in which the Blue Knights compete.

Drum and bugle corps are the closest thing to a professional marching band, he said, but are not affiliated with a school or team.

The corps came out of a military musical tradition and have only brass instruments, drumline and flags.

Corps like the Blue Knights follow a grueling schedule. Beginning in November, tryouts are held for the 150-person corps.

Ashley Drayer, a staff member, former drum major and former lead baritone, said for the more competitive World Class division, less than 30 percent of the people who try out make it.

"They're the best of the best in their city or state or program," she said.

Hartman said the Blue Knights have members from three countries and 20 states and range in age from 14 to 22.

They get the music to learn and meet once a month in Denver for the weekend, he said.

Once May hits, the corps members have two to three weeks of 12- to 14-hour days, rehearsing from morning to night, stopping only for meals and sleep.

"If you can handle this, you can handle just about anything," Hartman said.

After spring training, Hartman said they go on the road for eight weeks for a national tour.

Drayer said they cover 13,000 miles and 20 states to do 30 competitions, sleeping on gym floors and eating meals prepared in the food trailer that travels with them. And they pay thousands of dollars to participate.

With daily rehearsals and near-daily performances, there isn't much time left to do anything else.

"It's very surreal," said Drayer, who's been with the corps since 2003. "Even a gas station or a Wal-Mart seems exciting. You go inside and see all these pasty white people. It's strange."

But it's all worth it to hit the mark, hit the notes and hear the cheers of thousands, Hartman said.

Drayer said, "A lot of them say it's great to be the rock star for the night."

Then once the finals are over in August, most head back to play in a school band.

When members of elite bands run into each other, Lindstrom says they understand the price paid to be at the top.

"There's a commonality," he said. "They understand what every kid has gone through to get where they are."

Favorite people's favorite things

It happened again, all the Bush-Coil girls gathered together and shared their favorite things. I had debated for months about when to do it, because I knew it wouldn't be the same with Shay gone. I'm so glad now that we waited as long as we did, because the theme was "No Empty Chairs". Not that we had a theme going into this, but before it was over, it seemed obvious that we love each other so much that we will do anything to prevent even one empty chair in heaven. It started with Lauren giving each of us a DELICIOUS yummicake cupcake. But that wasn't her main gift, she actually created a beautiful wall hanging for each of us with the quote from President Benson and a picture of the Salt Lake Temple. Of course, as Lauren read the poem and talked about what it means to her, we were all crying. At least I think everyone was crying, because I couldn't hear a lot over my own tears. The AWESOME part was that Aubrey's favorite thing is a vinyl wall lettering that says, "NO EMPTY CHAIRS". Totally a coincidence, but not really, since Aubrey and Lauren love our family so much.

June was a rough month. Matthew was sick, I mean REALLY sick. I even called his parents, which we don't normally do until whatever bad thing has happened is over and we are all better. I was emotionally a mess going into the Favorite Things Event, and though it made me cry, I came out of it even more grateful for my 5 daughters and their loving attention to one another.

Erin gave each of us a beautiful binder with her favorite talks in it about being a daughter of God. In the front was a letter she wrote to us listing each of our qualities she admires. Erin, the one we all want to be like, is telling us what she thinks is so amazing about us.

Danielle gave everyone a hand sewn cosmetic bag that she had filled with her favorite things. Hello, of course, it had Carmex in it. (If I had a dollar for every tube of Carmex that went through the laundry when D. was in high school, I could buy the company and make it myself).

Shay made me feel so good when she talked about coming home and how our house always smells so good and she wants her home to be like our home. She said there is always a safe, happy spirit in our home that she and Andy are trying to create for their children. She gave each of us a scented plug in from Bath and Body Works. The girls were thrilled. That's something we all love but rarely buy for ourselves.

I was excited to give everyone my favorite things, pictures of my favorite things, each of our kids and grandkids. I created a 2008 Coil Family Yearbook. It has 28 pages of just us and the fun memories of 2008.



NO EMPTY CHAIRS

"Make it a family objective to
all be together in the Celestial
Kingdom. Strive to make your home
a little bit of heaven on earth
so that after this life is over,
you may be able to say:

WE ARE HERE!
FATHER, MOTHER,
SISTERS, BROTHERS-

All who hold each other dear.
Each chair is filled-
We're all at home...
We're all, all here."

President Ezra Taft Benson























I'm sure you noticed, there are a lot of pictures of good, because there was a lot of food. Danielle was kind enough to host at her house again, which is so much easier with little babies. We had Iggy's, since that is one of my new favorite places to eat. For dessert, we had Lala's cupcakes, chocolate and carmel dipped pretzels, Lion House Chocolate Cream cake, 3 different kinds of cheesecake and Italian raspberry cream sodas for the drink.

We laughed, we cried, we talked, we listened, we shared, we loved. It doesn't get any better than being sharing favorite things with my favorite people. Thanks each of you for making life beautiful.